I apologize ahead of time if I am not doing this correctly. I have never used a forum before, but have been reading a lot on this page.
I have a Select Comfort/Sleep Number bed. It has the adjustable base to raise head and feet. The model is 7000. I need a new topper I believe. There isn't anything mechanically wrong with the bed or the pumps, etc. But my problem is I go to bed and it feels like I'm laying on my bones no matter the adjustment of air in the bed. I was recently diagnosed and had just underwent brain surgery and have no been able to sleep right one I have to be in upright position and its hard as a side sleeper to lay on back. But before surgery it always felt like I had pressure points all over and the pain was so bad exposed. being diagnosed now w a rare bone disease that actually causes a lot of pain to bones I need something on this bed. Everything I have read and other peoples things they have done and the comments makes it so confusing because of issues being to certain things with different fibers creating mold, etc. It seems like Wool topper filler is the way to go but I am not sure. I look at some prices of these toppers and they can be expensive to sometimes you think just buy a new mattress. So I am obviously on a more budget at this point in life with recent events and surgery and needing additional surgery for 2 more bran tumors and a liver surgery from a rare genetic disease which is why I bought the select comfort years ago after having first liver surgery how hard it was to get up from bed without a bed to raise up to help without using stomach muscles, etc. Well same for brain except I have to sleep sitting up for awhile. So I need some type of cushion to help w.my bones so it actually does not feel like I'm laying direct on bones. I also have a king size bed where when one side goes up the other goes up automatically. I am not Sure if that can be changed so it doesn't bother husband side or not. I do have the new motor for adjusting the bed because ours did break and it was replaced with the new version so it does have to be suitable for my husband also. He isn't too picky though.
The topper itself I don't know if just wore out but under the topper is the egg carton type foam that all looks normal so I need something I THINK that goes in-between those 2 or I take the egg carton thing out? I am not sure. But any recommendation on what to replace or add would be great. I do not Mold, bugs, etc from switching things out. That is where it is confusing for me on here on what people have done, and lately I am a very hot sleeper from the surgery and amount of pain I do wake up sweating like crazy when pain medicine has wore off and before this I was ned onver able to control body temputure on own so if I'm cold I'm cold until I wrap up in warm blanket and then dress for warmth inside house and summer am very hot and aurally have to wear ice vests all day/night so it also has to be something that breaths well I am assuming. This temperature control thing has been a issue for 3 yrs now but I do believe one of my surgeries upcoming this yr at some point which is going to be last one after the tumors/liver are done will correct that issue. But it is not a guarantee. so I'm looking at few issues for a topper/filler etc when getting one. Also, one that won't break my pocketbook because I'm on a medical leave and my pay has been cut in half and on own insurance at this point which isn't cheap. So any advise greatly appreciated. I don't want to replace the bed because when I bought it it was so expensive as it was and my husband was not happy w the price and 10 yrs later im still hear about it. thank you in advance for your help. And I think normally I have my side set to like 35 to 40. so it's softer and I have tried like 50 and it's too hard on bones.